Love is a very interesting subject.
The first question we should ask is whether we love the person, meaning the spirit, soul or mind, or whether we merely love the body.
You can “love” someone’s body easily enough, but to be “in love” means that by definition, you have to love the mind or soul of the other individual.
Lots of bad marriages could be avoided if this very simple explanation were properly given. Of course, religions which misinform you that you “have a soul” add confusion to the issue, because as I already told you, you “are” the soul, and the thing you “have” while “vacationing” in the physical universe is just a body.
You can go to a plastic surgeon to make your body more “lovable.” There is nothing wrong with that, as long as you realize that the article you are surgically repairing is not really “you”, but the vessel you borrowed, leased or have stolen for your current lifetime’s journey into heartbreak.
Keep in mind that until you accept that you have no soul, but instead are the everlasting soul operating your body, you will never successfully move outside the body to a world of real wonder.
As painful as this may sound, you have to unlearn every bit of false information that you have ever been taught or you ever believed regarding the nature of the soul in the bible, the koran or any other rulebook of control.
The sad news is that until you conceive of yourself as a “formless empty nothing” in the physical universe, you will never be able to move outside of it until your body deteriorates and dies.
That’s right. You heard me. You are a formless, empty nothing.
That was a compliment, not an insult.
Please promise me that you won’t wait too long to experience the light of day between two nights of darkness.
You really need to experience life outside your body before you die.
Have you got that?
The light of day is your right of passage to operate as a free soul, unencumbered by the dead weight of a genetic corpse dragging you down and holding you back.
The two nights of darkness refer to two successive lifetimes, trapped in a body.
I am doing my part. I conveyed the information.
In the spiritual universe, we manufacture pictures and images of what our bodies looked like at every stage of interaction with other people. Friends you know at age 50 might see you looking that age. Of course, you can create a hologram of yourself a lot younger.
Women who died in their eighties want others to see them as twenty year olds.
Why wouldn’t they?
It isn’t “vanity”; it’s projecting a positive image. No one is going to judge you for wanting to look good when you’re dead.
“Soul mates” never exist in non-telepathic societies.
That can only happen when people interchange thoughts of love continuously at will, which verbal civilizations render impossible.
The most that you can hope for is people finding each other based on shared intentions and similarities. There is a phenomenon known as “commonality of partner choice”; where life after life the same individuals express their love for one another through goals they both share. Bodies have little to do with this, beside providing avenues of sexual attraction. Physical unions begin as hot erupting volcanoes and end as petrified cold stone. “Falling in love” invokes our spiritual side. From there comes the expression “soul mates.” Our “soul mate” may be as ugly as a witch or as horrid as a warlock; but in the spiritual universe we create beauty that never dies.
Isn’t it a shame that the one you humans generally fall in love with most of all is yourself?
I’ll let you in on a little secret, as much as I hate secrets.
In telepathic societies, everyone is the soul mate of everyone else. Why is that? Because everyone takes responsibility for love, and everyone loves taking responsibility.
It all comes down to loving others more than loving oneself.
Getting back to love on Earth, there seems to be no logic to the idea that you should love everybody, right?
Wrong!
Because you don’t love everybody or you are unwilling to love everybody, you become disappointed in yourselves and you feel that you don’t deserve the love of others.
You’re right, you don’t!
In order to justify your indifference, you set up “patterns of behavior” you live and love by. For example, you agreed “in principle” to offer unconditional love to family members; consisting of entities who are a part of the genetic bloodlines of your body’s vessels. I say “in principle” because even that you often violate. I see it all the time. Just watch the 11 o’clock news and you will notice what I mean. Human violence is sickening.
Why should you care when the body is only something you use and discard?
Because those are the rules we all collectively made with each other when we engineered the blueprints to populate the physical universe.
We agreed to love those souls who serve as our body’s parents, children, and those whose welfare we are responsible for, including nephews, nieces, grandparents and other extended family members; as well as adopted children and close friends who are within our reach, our domain and our care.
Was it an ideal situation?
Not hardly, but for a verbal society like yours, the plan appeared to be workable.
And it would have worked, had you remained ethical, but you didn’t. Not only that, you wanted a way out; a way to be irresponsible; and so you created one.
You made up a self-destructive rule whereby there is never any obligation to love anyone wishing to cause you harm. The only exception are souls within your own responsibility or sphere of influence. When a close relative or friend tries to do you harm, you’re supposed to handle them with love. But you have no obligation to love your enemies, or even strangers.
“The hell with them!” you say. “Who are they in my sweet, young life? Why should I give a damn?”
And that, my friends, was the beginning of the end for the human race; a destiny of life without love.
Nobody on your planet wants to take complete responsibility for the fate and welfare of other people.
What has happened because of that?
Nothing more than the metastasizing cancer of a verbal society.
But here is where it gets tricky for those in authority, such as heads of state, prime ministers, presidents, kings and even dictators. They have been placed into a position (or have placed themselves there) to take responsibility for all those under their charge and dominion. Should they cause harm to others, then the mental image pictures they will be “invited” to see for all eternity will isolate them permanently.
My advice is if you don’t have a conscience, stay out of politics. You might regret it forever.
In other words, if you can’t help people by creating big effects, narrow the scope of your involvement and restrict your contacts to those who you really love and who also love you. You should never take on more responsibility than you can handle unless love is the driving force behind it.
Finally, if you are incapable of love, your life is worth nothing, and your death is worth even less.
So what advice can this telepathic lady who is a real pain in the ass give you that’s worth anything?
Do not be the object of love or the subject of love. Be love itself.
When you are love, you will be loved.
The concept is as old as this universe. Sorry you lived without it all this time.
Lucy
